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The Turn On Trigger Quiz

How do you get your partner in the mood? And how do you get yourself in the mood?

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Your desires are unique to you. Discover what excites and empowers you in your sexual journey.


Many assume that physical touch is the key to intimacy, but this can sometimes lead to what sex therapist Vanessa Marin calls the Bristle Reaction—when someone recoils from feeling ambushed.

To avoid this, it's important to understand what your partner needs to get into the right headspace.

Discover your desires
Discover your desires
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Understand what your partner needs BEFORE intimacy begins
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Tell your partner what helps you get in the mood
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Learn what other turn on triggers may also work for you
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I felt like my results were very accurate. Thanks for this quiz!

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I loved all the fun and actually helpful links. And loved the points you provided after the results.

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San Diego
Loved it!

Overall the quiz was short, sweet, and to the point. Loved that. My results were very accurate and I loved the popular requests and potential script.

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United States

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