Learning about love should feel as mindblowing as making it.

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LOVERS is a place for people who LOVE love (and great sex too). It's a vibrant community where people unite, learn, and overshare about their enthusiasm for intimacy.

Here, members have the conversations you can’t have on social media, access to an exclusive resource library, plus early access to the LOVERS podcast. Together, let’s make learning about love as freeing as making it.

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Conversations

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I found that on social media, it's difficult to have conversations about intimacy that don't end up in conflict: either between yourself and strangers or yourself and those you're intimate with. So I built a space where we can talk about intimacy with education, honesty, humor and humanity at the forefront.

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Deep dive workshops

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Workshops designed to teach you how to become your own intimacy expert, through practical tools, profound insights, and honest conversations.

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Exclusive content

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The deeper cuts, the unedited conversations, and a library of Shan's work you won't find anywhere else.

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More from the podcast

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A library of Shan's work you won't find anywhere else. Hear LOVERS episodes before they go public, sit in on the group discussions that shape them, and get access to unedited versions of her most talked-about interviews, past and future.

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Lovers Voices

Real words from real members

I’m growing into the kind of partner I've always wanted to be.
Shan and the community create such a safe, supportive space
“This space has given me the courage to have conversations I used to avoid.”
“I’ve learned to embrace my needs and desires without shame.”
“I’ve never felt so safe and understood in a community before.”
“I’m rediscovering myself, and it’s been incredibly empowering.”
“It’s like my relationships finally have room to breathe.”
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Newsletter
Dear lover,

Subscribe to hear from me whenever there's something worth sending, a new resource, a new episode, or just what's on my mind, what I'm currently learning, leaning into, and listening to. This is a window into where my head's at, and hopefully it gets you thinking too.

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Podcast

Lovers by Shan

Learning about love should be as satisfying as making it. In this intimacy-based, interview style podcast, we find the best and most surprising teachers to help enrich your intimate world - both in and out of the bedroom.

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Quizzes and Worksheets

Free worksheets and quizzes geared towards helping you learn more about yourself and your relationships. They may not be able to tell you if you should text your ex on their birthday, but they can bring clarity on why they are an ex.

A safe and vibrant community where people who live for love (the sexy kind) unite, learn, and overshare