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I'm curious...

Do any of these resonate?

I want a space to share how I really feel w/ those who feel me
Can all of Shan's lessons just be in one centralized place so I can reference it on demand?
I wish I had a group of friends who shared my passion for intimacy!
I want MORE from Shan & I think she needs more of me ;)
Social media is not the space for intimate discussions, but I don't know where else to go.
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If yes, the community is here to help you with...

Two-way connection

Personal interactions with Shan. Ask her anything. Really, anything.

No topic's off limits!
Personalized for you

Access exclusive, curated content tailored to your journey.

Made just for your journey.
Exclusive content

Enjoy members-only podcasts that offer personalized content.

Every other Tuesday!
Judgement free

A moderated, inclusive space surrounded by people with similar values.

Share YOUR values.
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What to expect

Everything you’ll discover inside the community

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Community Conversations
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Be Part of the Podcast
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Q&A sessions with me
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Deep dive workshops

Conversations

Discussion forums, interest groups, and dedicated spaces where members can connect, share their experiences, and support each other.

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Upcoming Q&A with Shan

Join Shan for a Q&A session this week where we'll dive into the power of vulnerability in relationships. How can we allow ourselves to be open and honest while still protecting...

Shan Boodram
Feb 2025
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How do I talk to my partner about my fetish?

Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking a lot about how to bring up my fetish with my partner, but I’m kinda nervous about it. I don’t want to make things awkward or uncomfortable...

Arlene McCoy
Feb 2025
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Dealing with a past trauma

I've been in a relationship for about a year, and things are mostly great. However, I find myself triggered by certain things my partner does, which brings up unresolved...

Riley Vinthers
Jan 2025

Deep dive workshops

Sessions that provide in-depth explorations of topics related to all things sex, intimacy, and relationships, focusing on practical education and real-world applications.

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Workshop

Resolving conflict with care, love and confidence

12:00 pm

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Sep 15, 2024

Sep
15
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Workshop

Exploring your sexual self with Shan Boodram

3:00 pm

EST,

Sep 16, 2024

Sep
16
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Workshop

Rekindling romantic sparks with your partner

10:00 am

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Oct 12, 2024

Oct
12

Live Q&A sessions

If you’ve ever wanted to really pick my brain on love, sex, or relationships, this is your space. AMAs, check-ins, and unfiltered convos every other week.

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Live Q&A sessions

Let’s deep dive into your relationships

3:00 pm

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Sep 3, 2024

Sep
03
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Live Q&A sessions

Your most pressing love and sex questions

12:00 pm

EST,

Sep 12, 2024

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Sep
12
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Live Q&A sessions

Navigating the highs and lows of love

5:00 pm

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Sep 17, 2024

Sep
17

Be a part of the podcast

Ever listen to a podcast and wish you could jump into the conversation? Now you can. In the third segment, we unpack episodes together, your thoughts, your takes, and maybe even your voice featured in the show.

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Podcast

What really builds long lasting connections

Oct 27, 2024

1h 25mins

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Podcast

Keeping the spark alive in your relationship

Nov 4, 2024

1h 15mins

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Podcast

The Lover's guide to defining personal boundaries

Nov 6, 2024

1h 15mins

Lover's Voices

Real words from real members

I’m growing into the kind of partner I've always wanted to be.
Shan and the community create such a safe, supportive space
“This space has given me the courage to have conversations I used to avoid.”
“I’ve learned to embrace my needs and desires without shame.”
“I’ve never felt so safe and understood in a community before.”
“I’m rediscovering myself, and it’s been incredibly empowering.”
“It’s like my relationships finally have room to breathe.”
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Whether you're looking to learn, grow, or engage, this membership is designed to support your journey every step of the way.

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  • Direct Connection with Shan
  • Live events and workshops
  • Exclusive content (members-only podcast)
  • Safe, Judgment-free space
  • Learn from experts and peers
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Frequently asked questions

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How is Lovers by Shan different from other relationship communities?

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We’re a close-knit community focused on authenticity, growth, and inclusivity. We prioritize diverse experiences, personalized learning, and accountability in a supportive, non-judgmental space. Whether you're seeking lighthearted fun or deep transformation, Lovers by Shan offers resources tailored to your journey.

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Can I participate in Lovers by Shan if I’m currently single?

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Yes! Our resources and community are designed for individuals at all stages of relationships, including those who are single, dating, in committed partnerships, or exploring other forms of relationships. Self-love, communication, and intimacy skills are valuable whether or not you're currently in a relationship.

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How can I get one-on-one support for relationship challenges?

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While Lovers by Shan isn’t a substitute for therapy, we do offer personalized resources, live Q&A sessions, and group support where you can get advice and insights. For more in-depth support, we recommend consulting with a licensed therapist or counselor.

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How does Lovers by Shan ensure privacy and confidentiality?

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We prioritize privacy and confidentiality within our community. Members agree to respect each other's experiences and uphold our community guidelines, which emphasize respect and discretion. Personal information shared in live sessions and group discussions is strictly for members only.

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Are there community guidelines I should know about?

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Yes, we ask all members to respect our community guidelines, which include upholding confidentiality, showing respect for all backgrounds and identities, and promoting constructive, positive interactions. These guidelines are in place to keep Lovers by Shan a safe and supportive space for everyone.

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A safe and vibrant community where people who live for love (the sexy kind) unite, learn, and overshare