A Guide to the Sexual Journey As We Grow

A Guide to the Sexual Journey As We Grow

A Guide to the Sexual Journey As We Grow

answers to your “is this normal?” questions

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Consider that most people get “the talk” in their mid-late teens, now consider that we are sexual for our entire lives: from utero to funeral (fetuses and dead people can get erections). When we consider this we don't have to think of sex as this thing we need to avoid, but instead something we must learn to embrace and understand in order to have a healthy relationship with it across the various ages and stages of interest. In this guide I do a breakdown of common sexual behaviors from age 0-18 and then I share a personal anecdote about this that someone from the Lovers by Shan community shared.

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This resource made it feel so normalized (as it should), without too many big and scary words or statistics. It was an easy read and I think this will be a great introduction to this topic for many people and parents!

Danica
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So important!

I wish there was a resource like this when I was growing up so I wouldn't be shamed for being a curious kid. Very important work, thank you!

V
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Canada

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