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The Commitment Structure Quiz

What kind of relationship do you thrive in?

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^{A commitment structure helps organize agreements around exclusivity in relationships. There's no correct approach to commitment, what matters is finding a structure that works for you and your lover(s).}

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There are countless ways to define commitment structures, however this quiz focuses on nine key types

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I texted my partner the link to the quiz so I can hear more about his needs.

My results were pretty accurate! I'm in an open relationship, so this quiz really opened my eyes to my needs while also asking really thought-provoking questions, but that comes at no surprise-Shan asks the best questions. I can't wait to talk about his results with him!

Clara

United States

Spot on!

I took the quiz, and the results were spot on! I also loved the accompanying photos—they were a perfect touch!

LeoLin

Austin, TX

I love the ideas!

I just took the quiz and I think the result of mine is pretty accurate. I love the ideas included in the “popular requests” section and I really love the “potential script” to help guide people on how to approach these conversations.

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Nury Chavez

Los Angeles, CA

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