Lovers by Shan Community
LOVERS is a private community for a real education in intimacy, sex, and relationships.
For $12 a year (a dollar a month, billed once annually) you get access to the private community, the NSFW boards, a growing library of workshops and resources, live classes, and exclusive podcast access, built for people who are committed to doing love better, with themselves, with their people, and with the world.
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If yes, the community is here to help you with...
Bring your real questions. Discussion threads, prompts, and check-ins pull the conversation out of your head and into a room full of people who get it.
A library of quizzes, worksheets, and workshops that keeps growing, with new material added over time. So there's always something new waiting for you.
Early access to LOVERS podcast episodes and the discussions that happen before each one goes public, plus unedited versions of Shan's most popular and controversial episodes.
What you share here lives behind a door instead of on the open internet, surrounded by people who showed up for the same reason you did.
Everything you’ll discover inside the community
Community conversations
Discussion forums, interest groups, and dedicated spaces where members can connect, share their experiences, and support each other.
What do you do when your partner wants something you don't?
A friend asked me what to do when her boyfriend brought up a fantasy that made her stomach drop, not from excitement, and she still hasn't said yes or no...
How do you build a roster?
Hear me out, I'm new to this city, would love to build community, connections and have a little fun in the mix as well! So I asked ChatGPT to create a list of...
How do I talk to my partner about my fetish?
Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking a lot about how to bring up my fetish with my partner, but I’m kinda nervous about it. I don’t want to make things awkward or uncomfortable...
Deep dive workshops
Sessions that provide in-depth explorations of topics related to all things sex, intimacy, and relationships, focusing on practical education and real-world applications.
Resolving conflict with care, love and confidence
Exploring your sexual self with Shan Boodram
Rekindling romantic sparks with your partner
Exclusive content
The deeper cuts, the unedited conversations, and a library of Shan's work you won't find anywhere else.
Let’s deep dive into your relationships
Your most pressing love and sex questions
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Navigating the highs and lows of love
More from the podcast
A library of Shan's work you won't find anywhere else. Hear LOVERS episodes before they go public, sit in on the group discussions that shape them, and get access to unedited versions of her most talked-about conversations, past and future.
What really builds long lasting connections
Keeping the spark alive in your relationship
The Lover's guide to defining personal boundaries
Real words from real members
"It feels super intimate and like I’ve gained a special support group and we’ve never met"
For people who take love as seriously as everything else, real conversations, real classes, and real access, built to be part of your everyday. One dollar a month, billed annually.
- Private Community
- NSFW Boards
- Community Exclusive Content
- Resource Library
- Live Classes
Frequently asked questions
How is LOVERS by Shan different from other relationship communities?
LOVERS is a private community for a real education in intimacy, sex, and relationships, the kind almost none of us were given. It's built for real conversations that can't happen on public platforms, backed by a growing library of workshops and resources, plus podcast access you won't find anywhere else.
Can I participate in Lovers by Shan if I’m currently single?
Yes! Our resources and community are designed for individuals at all stages of relationships, including those who are single, dating, in committed partnerships, or exploring other forms of relationships. Self-love, communication, and intimacy skills are valuable whether or not you're currently in a relationship.
How can I get one-on-one support for relationship challenges?
While Lovers by Shan isn’t a substitute for therapy, we do offer personalized resources, live Q&A sessions, and group support where you can get advice and insights. For more in-depth support, we recommend consulting with a licensed therapist or counselor.
How does Lovers by Shan ensure privacy and confidentiality?
We prioritize privacy and confidentiality within our community. Members agree to respect each other's experiences and uphold our community guidelines, which emphasize respect and discretion. Personal information shared in live sessions and group discussions is strictly for members only.
Are there community guidelines I should know about?
Yes, we ask all members to respect our community guidelines, which include upholding confidentiality, showing respect for all backgrounds and identities, and promoting constructive, positive interactions. These guidelines are in place to keep Lovers by Shan a safe and supportive space for everyone.
A vibrant community where people who live for love (the sexy kind) unite, learn, and overshare
