


Learning about love should feel as mindblowing as making it.



Lovers by Shan is a place for people who LOVE love (and great sex too). It's a safe and vibrant community where people unite, learn, and overshare about their enthusiasm for intimacy. Here, members have the conversations you can’t have on social media and you get to build a two-way relationship with Shan plus the Lovers podcast. Together, let’s make learning about love as freeing as making it. Take this quiz to see if you’re a fit for us



Conversations
I found that on social media, it's difficult to have conversations about intimacy that don't end up in conflict: either between yourself and strangers or yourself and those you're intimate with. So I built a space where we can talk about intimacy with education, honesty, humor and humanity at the forefront.






Deep dive workshops
Regular workshops designed to teach you how to become your own intimacy expert through practical tools, profound insights, and honest conversations.






Q&A sessions with me
Live Q&A sessions with me, where members can get focused insights plus in-depth discussions on whatever is top of heart for them.





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Be a part of the podcast
Listening is one thing, but what happens next? That’s where you come in. You can be part of it. The third segment of my podcast Lovers by Shan is where your voice helps shape the conversation.


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Real words from real members


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& Friends
Lovers by Shan
Learning about love should be as satisfying as making it. In this intimacy-based, interview style podcast, we find the best and most surprising teachers to help enrich your intimate world - both in and out of the bedroom.





Quizzes and Worksheets
Free worksheets and quizzes geared towards helping you learn more about yourself and your relationships. They may not be able to tell you if you should text your ex on their birthday, but they can bring clarity on why they are an ex.
A safe and vibrant community where people who live for love (the sexy kind) unite, learn, and overshare


